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ran on Gawker earlier this month we received hundreds of comments and emails objecting to, agreeing with, or otherwise responding to Baker.This week, we're publishing some of those responses as part of a conversation about race and relationships.
I’m engaged to a Latino man who is 1/2 Mexican and 1/2 Spainiard. I attached a photo of myself for context so you can see I understand this subject quite well from all sides. He let the cat out of the bag and any Latinx in this country who says they’ve never had a family member express similar sentiments is either lying or comes from a rare unicorn family. I was told that my fiancées mother cried when she found out her son was dating a black girl.This is why I don’t get worked up about immigration even though it matters a lot to my father and future husband. I have been meaning to email you for a while and tell you how interesting I think it is that swirling for women in my family is the rule and not the exception.That’s a long story I’ll have to go into another time.Stories, which laced with racial stereotypes, were told continuously that they became truth.Those "stories" tell of black men leaving their women, and of black men being promiscuous and violent. While problematic, my parents' thinking was the thinking of their time.Both minorities have been reported to confront more than cooperate in certain areas; reports have pinpointed competition for jobs as a factor.
What's crazy to me is that both groups, Mexicans and blacks, have been marginalized historically, and dealt with levels of oppression by systems, yet tension is between individuals.Take the segregation and gang rivalry in Los Angeles or the hate crimes in southern states, like Texas and Atlanta.This past April, a Hispanic father attacked his 14-year-old daughter after she chose a 15-year-old black guy as her dancing partner for a pre-quinceañera party.In a nutshell- it’s the Latinas that don’t want their sons with black women. My fiancés family loves me and would be devastated if we broke up. Latino men are passionate, sexy, family oriented, great dancers (important to me lol) and take pride in providing. Issue 3) Current immigration problems with POC and their prior relationship to bp.The fathers don’t want their daughter with bm but don’t mind bw with their sons. They see the status of bp in this country and assume they have a fighting chance if they can distance themselves. BW should not let GL’s outburst scare them away from Latinos who show interest. Subconsciously he had no fear of getting away with it. He would have never addressed a Latina or WW that way. GL has been around enough bm comedians to absorb what they think about bw. Definitely not bm, not Latinos who love bw, not Latinas (lol as if), nobody. I didn’t agree with some comments you made about immigration and how these groups are learning how it feels to be in our shoes.My mom knew her father wouldn't approve either way. She knew if she wanted to be with my dad, she'd have to runaway with him. Despite not knowing she was pregnant with my older brother at the time, she hid in a bunk in the back of my father's van and they crossed the border together.