Christian girl dating a jewish guy

28-Mar-2017 06:05 by 9 Comments

Christian girl dating a jewish guy

It was the day I’d long hoped for, marrying a nice Jewish girl. In fact, by the time we’d started dating, I’d given up on Jewish women, and my dream of a perfect Jewish wedding, altogether. The intense pressure I felt to date and marry within the tribe damaged my perception of Jewish women and my ability to be myself around them.

This is kind of a major quality for the person you’re going to marry.

Maybe it’s because we’ve been screwed in the past, but Jewish men were always taught to keep an eye on the future.

Generally speaking, they value a high-power career (think lawyer, doctor, finance, entrepreneur) and are self-motivated enough to obtain it, if only because they desperately want the bragging rights.

Unlike me, she hadn’t dreamed of meeting someone Jewish and having a Jewish wedding.

I was only able to relax around non-Jewish women, because I didn’t feel the same pressure; that’s how I met, and fell in love with, my wife.

And their love of bagels, lox and Jew food means they won’t mind your smelly breath in the morning.

These men earn the moniker, “NJB” (nice Jewish boys).

The closest they’ve come to throwing a punch is mixing their bottle-service drinks with Kool-Aid.

Their Bar Mitzvahs taught them the value of doing good deeds (or “tzedakah" -- see, you’re learning fast! Their small circle taught them the importance of keeping a secret between you two.

I’m knowledgeable on the subject and I can appreciate a solid Jewish man when I meet him (Why do you think I’m out for Anne Hathaway’s blood all the time? But above all, Jewish men happen to make excellent boyfriends and even better husbands.

Perhaps due to their borderline questionable attachment to their invasive Jewish mothers (no judgment: I have one and will become one), they understand and value treating a lady right, especially someone they love.

If you want to feel a part of a heritage bigger than yourself, you’ll be in welcoming company.

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